Category Archives: Women & Girls

Raising American Girls?

I’m not an expert, but I’ve been involved in raising several American Girls: daughters, granddaughters & now great granddaughters. And I hope I’ve learned a thing or two.

Here’s one: several of the American Girl doll characters were very valuable for one of them, and me, at the turn of the millennium.

I never bought any of the dolls, which were made to resemble girls from different eras in American history: great idea but too pricey, I discovered the series, and one character, at the library, in an associated audiobook. It was Addy Walker: an enslaved girl, who escapes from sun-baked southern tobacco fields to freedom. In six connected stories, her family begins to cope with the opportunities — and hardships — of a free life in a still unequal American society.

In those years I often traveled with my oldest granddaughter, driving us for hours to family and Quaker events. Good books on tape held our attention and helped pass many miles. They also promoted the appeal of reading, one of my goals for her.

Addy was an audio and read-aloud favorite for me. My granddaughter is multiracial, and Addy’s stories were mulch for the continuing task of nurturing and navigating her growing identity in our somewhat more free but still unequal world.

They also dealt, delicately, with class: For instance, Addy’s family goes to work in a dressmaking shop run by a Quaker businesswoman. This owner is no mere saintly icon. She’s on the side of freedom, but is an unsentimental demanding boss, pressing for efficient, quality work that can be sold for a hefty profit. Nothing wrong with that! Continue reading Raising American Girls?

Annie Dillard’s Birthday: Renegade Writer & Creekside Theologian

Today, April 30, 2024, is Annie Dillard’s birthday.

Among the many eminent authors who interest me, she might be the one I would most like to be email & text message-buddies with, so  I could have a chance to keep up with her laser sharp thoughts and squibs on, whatever. Continue reading Annie Dillard’s Birthday: Renegade Writer & Creekside Theologian

For Memorial Day: A Book From The Other “Front Line” Of Our Wars

Cornell-inside-SM-01-16-2010For several years I frequently visited Camp Lejeune, the large Marine base on the North Carolina coast, about three hours east of where I lived.

I went because they had a brig — a jail — and several of the troops I had worked with as resisters to war served time in it. I went to visit as often as I could.

Above is a photo of the gate there from which prisoners are released; the man just about to emerge is Clifford Cornell, a GI resister who was released in January, 2010.

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A Friendly Letter: Intro to the Blog

Dear Friend,

Welcome to the online edition of A Friendly Letter. In addition to back issues, there are some new reports as well. The major new report is about two multi-million dollar financial frauds, perpetrated on Quakers and other churches. Another new addition is a personal tribute to Bill Kriedler, a very fine Quaker minister who died in June, 2000.

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